Okay, confession time—Valentine’s Day used to creep up on me every year. I'd panic, grab a bouquet, maybe a box of chocolates, and call it a day. But honestly? It felt like an empty gesture. Eventually, my partner and I stopped the whole gifting charade altogether—it was all roses (pun intended) until I came across some truly amazing, unexpected gifts that changed the game. These gems not only broke our “no-gift” rule but made me realise how thoughtful (and exciting) gifting can be.
So, if you're over the cliché (or just want to impress your partner), here’s my top-secret list of Valentine’s Day gifts that no one talks about—until now.
- Personalised Puzzle by CanvasChamp
My boyfriend swore he hated puzzles but would still sit for hours doing them with his niece. Classic denial. Being the observant girlfriend I am, I decided to get him a personalised puzzle with a picture of our first date. And guess what? He loved it. We spent the evening in cosy PJs, snacks in hand, piecing together memories, and it turned into one of the best nights we’ve had.A personalised puzzle isn’t just a gift; it’s an experience. You can choose a picture that means something to both of you—your first trip, a goofy selfie, or even your pet—and create a bonding moment that feels playful yet deeply intimate. Bonus: Once you’re done, frame it as a keepsake!Why it’s a winner:
- Interactive and meaningful.
- Great for quality time and memory-making.
- A sentimental keepsake with Instagram-worthy charm
- Spicy Toys by MyMuse
It’s not just about the obvious fun—though trust me, there’s plenty of that. It’s about the thoughtfulness of showing that you care about their pleasure– both when you're not around, and when you want to try new things together. And let me tell you, MyMuse’s Link remote-controlled massager is an absolute game-changer. It’s sleek, soft, and feels like a luxurious little secret we get to share. The best part? It comes with a remote, so I get to hand over control, and let him surprise me.Now, if you’re wondering whether there are options for men, let me introduce you to the Edge Stroker. I was a bit sceptical at first, but seeing my partner’s face light up when he tried it? Worth every penny. It’s stretchy, textured, and vibrates with different patterns that make him practically worship the thing… and me, for giving it to him.If you’re curious but still on the fence, here’s a little nudge: I found this code EDGE10 in the comments of a creator I follow, and it actually works. I got an additional 10% off! Why it’s a winner:
- Your O-meter? Through the roof.
- Can be used solo or together
- You both won’t stop coming together for these toys
- Bouquet Subscription by FNP
Sure, a bouquet on Valentine’s Day is lovely, but what if you could keep the romance going all year long? This one, I fully admit, is inspired by my cousin. He’s been married for 10 years and swears by his weekly flower deliveries to surprise his wife. And honestly? It’s genius. Instead of the usual one-off bouquet for Valentine’s, a flower subscription keeps the romance alive all year long. It’s a thoughtful gift that says, “I love you and I want you to feel special, even on a random Tuesday.” Why it’s a winner:
- Keeps the romance alive.
- Fresh, vibrant blooms to brighten their day.
- A weekly reminder of your top-tier gifting skills.
- Play Hard Kit by MyMuse
Come on, let’s be real—once you’ve got a sex toy (or two), it’s hard to stop adding to the collection. My boyfriend gave me this as an anniversary gift, and honestly, it’s perfect for V-day. The Play Hard Kit is your all-in-one ticket to turning “date night” into “damn night.” Packed with a blindfold, handcuffs, and a dirty dice game, it’s basically the holy trinity of foreplay. It’s the perfect way to spice things up, trying things like sensory play and light bondage without feeling overwhelmed. And hey, a little tip from me to you: use the code PLAYHARD10 to grab it at a limited additional 10% off discount.Why it’s a winner:
- Adds a dose of fun and spontaneity to your relationship.
- Perfect for couples at any stage—beginners to pros.
- The kit does all the heavy lifting—you just have to show up (and maybe get tied up).
- Relaxation Essentials by The Body Shop
I know, I know—self-care gifts sound a bit cliché. But hear me out: instead of booking an overpriced couple’s spa, create your own at home. Last Valentine’s, I planned a DIY spa night for my partner and me, complete with foot soaks, massages, and face masks. There’s something incredibly intimate about pampering each other. Plus, the little things—candles, music, and oils—make the night feel extra special. It’s an easy and affordable way to connect and unwind together.Here’s the twist: giving a massage can lead to other things... wink, wink.Why it’s a winner:
- Promotes relaxation and quality time.
- Perfect for a soothing, hands-on experience.
- Makes you both feel pampered and loved.